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As a kid, I would sit at the kitchen table and read the back of the cereal box. Now as an adult, I have a Kindle full of stories and traditional books on one specific shelf awaiting my attention. 

I read in the school pick up line and while waiting for my son’s allergy shots when he doesn’t beg me to play Memory or I Spy. I keep an ongoing list of what I’ve read over at Goodreads, but I like to share it here a couple times of year too. {This is an updated post of the one I shared in July.}

And, yes, my own book is on the list. I read it many, many times this year before self-publishing it this fall. 

Fiction

• “Missing You” by Harlan Coben
• “Fall From Grace” by Richard North Patterson
• “That Certain Summer” by Irene Hannon
• “One Perfect Spring” by Irene Hannon
• “Made in the U.S.A.” by Billie Letts
• “The Secret Keeper” by Kate Morton {Related Post}
• “Full Disclosure” by Dee Henderson
• “Unspoken” by Dee Henderson
• “Undetected” by Dee Henderson
• “Dangerous Passage” (Southern Crimes #1) by Lisa Harris
• “Fatal Exchange” (Southern Crimes #2) by Lisa Harris
• “Deceived” by Irene Hannon {Review}
• “Gone Girl” by Gillian Flynn
• “Trading Secrets” by Melody Carlson {Review}
• “Submerged” (Alaskan Courage Book #1) by Dani Pettrey
• “Shattered” (Alaskan Courage Book #2) by Dani Pettrey
• “Stranded” (Alaskan Courage Book #3) by Dani Pettrey
• “Silenced” (Alaskan Courage Book #4) by Dani Pettrey
• “Hidden Agenda” (Southern Crimes #3) by Lisa Harris {Review coming in January!}

Non-fiction // Christianity

• “Let. It. Go.” by Karen Ehman
• “Love Idol” by Jennifer Dukes Lee {Review & Related Posts}
• “The Applause of Heaven” by Max Lucado
• “Chasing God” by Angie Smith {Review}
• “Restless: Because You Were Made for More” by Jennie Allen {Review}
• “Storyline: Finding Your Subplot in God’s Story” by Donald Miller {Related Posts}
• “Front Porch Living: A Faith Journey to the Summers of Yesteryear” by Lori Dunham
• “Permission to Speak Freely: Essays and Art on Fear, Confession, and Grace” by Anne Jackson
• “Wherever the River Runs” by Kelly Minter {Review}
• “Interrupted: When Jesus Wrecks Your Comfortable Christianity” by Jen Hatmaker
• “I Am Hutterite” by Mary-Ann Kirkby
• “Bread and Wine: A Love Letter to Life Around the Table with Recipes” by Shauna Niequist
• “What Your Heart Needs on the Hard Days” by Holley Gerth {Review}
• “Loop: What Women Need to Know” by Jennifer Camp {Related Post}
• “A Life That Matters” by Ron Hutchcraft

Non-fiction // Parenthood

• “No More Perfect Kids” by Jill Savage and Kathy Koch {Review & Related Posts}
• “Bringing Home the Missing Linck: A Journey of Faith to Family” by Jennifer Jackson Linck
• “Surprised by Motherhood” by Lisa-Jo Baker {Review}
• “Trucks, Tantrums and Trusting Him: Confessions of a Boy Mom” by Jennifer Jackson Linck {Review}
• “A to Z Summer Fun: Ideas to Inspire Family Fun” by Cathy Baker {Review}
• “Small Talk: Learning From My Children What Matters Most” by Amy Julia Becker {Review}
• “Peace in the Process: How Adoption Built My Faith & My Family” by Kristin Hill Taylor (me!) {Related Posts 
• “Blessed Chaos: A Journey Through Instant Motherhood” by Ashley Wells {Excerpt}

Non-fiction // Marriage

• “Worth the Fight: Lessons Learned in a High Maintenance Marriage” by Kayse Pratt {Review}
• “The Marriage You’ve Always Wanted” by Gary Chapman {Review}
• “The Antelope in the Living Room: The Real Story of Two People Sharing One Life” by Melanie Shankle
• “Pure Eyes, Clean Heart: A Couple’s Journey to Freedom from Pornography” by Jen & Craig Ferguson {Review}
• “A Lifelong Love” by Gary Thomas {Review}

Non-fiction // Writing

A couple friends and I text almost every day. When one of them asks how my day is, I answer immediately with a list of what I’ve accomplished and what I plan to accomplish. I cite my to-do list. I reference my productivity.

I let accomplishments and productivity define my day. A good day is one when I’ve conquered errands and chores with time to spare for writing or playing. A frustrating day means my plans have been shuffled or my chores disrupted.

It’s no secret I have perfectionist tendencies.

God’s been teaching me to let go of those ways, but it’s a process. During this journey I’ve come across books and people who have spoken so much truth into my life. Most recently, this Love Idol movement inspired by Jennifer Dukes Lee’s book that releases April 1 has wrecked my heart.

And I mean wrecked in a good, life-changing way. I’ve only read the introduction and first chapter of “Love Idol,” but Jennifer’s works have me thinking and praying and surrendering and trusting in a new way.

“Instead of resting in the love and approval of an unseen God, we chase after the temporary pleasures of human validation.

Whatever rules our hearts becomes our lord. The person who seeks approval and acceptance can become controlled by it. The person who is motivated primarily by a need for human affirmation is, in the end, ruled by it.

If we don’t get the love and acceptance we crave, we’re deflated. But if we do get the approval we want, we might not be any better off, for we are tricked into thinking our idols offer fulfillment. And we keep going back for more.

This book is for any of us who want to live content in God’s perfect love, freed up from the wearying demands of the Love Idol.”

{Jennifer Dukes Lee in “Love Idol“}

I named my idol Productivity.

In effort to truly let go of my worship of getting things done when there are people right here to love, I spent some time — lots of time, if I’m honest — trying to think of what I could give up for Lent, which begins today.

I texted with a friend who is on this journey with me because my extroverted ways often process truth in conversations. I struggled to figure out just what God was calling me to lay down before him.

I thought about my to-do list and calendar. I wondered about silencing my words about productivity. I considered what was pushing my attention on Productivity, that pesky idol that seems to be a good thing.

Sometimes I try to prove to myself I’m more than “just a mom.” So I take on projects and volunteer for things that use my skills of organization and promotion. I add commitments to the calendar and then become distracted at home. Last fall, I laid down several commitments that were all good things so I could focus on the best things.

The best thing is that I am a wife, mom and friend. Those roles doesn’t necessarily come with appointments that fill specific spaces on the calendar, but they do come with responsibilities and commitments. And that’s where I want my attention. God’s been working on me this way as I work through “Storyline” with some friends online. I shouldn’t be surprised this week’s lesson was on our roles. Donald Miller reminded me too much of even the best roles isn’t sustainable in the big picture: “When we play too many roles, our story suffers for clarity. … None of us can connect with everybody. We have to choose.”

“Love Idol” is a movement that’s reinforcing what’s already happening in my heart. So, starting today, I’m going work on my attitude. Instead of rushing the kids out the door because I had to send one more email or start one more load of laundry, I’m going to let those chores wait. Because when I start rushing, my voice gets louder and harsher.

What that means in a practical Lenten sacrifice is I’m not going to yell or rush. I’m not going to let Productivity define my days. When “How is your day?” comes to me in a text, I’m going to answer the question with truth, not with a list of accomplishments and expectations.

This is all a process of sanctification, of being more like my Creator. As I read Angie Smith’s “Chasing God,” I realize I do chase God when I should be following him.

“We will take one more and more characteristics of our God, and our attitudes and behavior will be different. But don’t think it’s something you’re in control of or that’ it’s a project God dumped in your lap and told you to complete.

Paul explains, ‘And we all, with unveiled face, beholding the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from one degree of glory to another. For this comes from the Lord who is the Spirit’ (2 Corinthians 3:18).

… the phrase ‘being transformed’ is in a passive tense, indicating that we aren’t in charge of transforming ourselves; it’s the work of the Holy Spirit within us. … So the sermon notes, the stacks of Christian books, and all the fellowship potlucks you have on your calendar are a waste of time if you aren’t relying on Him. Our strength is just not enough to make us grow in holiness.”

{Angie Smith in “Chasing God“}

For me, worshiping Productivity is me trying to transform myself. That’s not my role in sanctification and true transformation.

Holley Gerth reminded me in a conversation last weekend that working harder isn’t always the answer. Becoming a worker takes away the worship God wants from our lives. Using our gifts and loving on the people near us is worship, but idolizing Productivity takes away from the glory God wants to display.

Of course, there are going to be days where chores and work are required, but I want to live in a way that my completion of those tasks doesn’t make or break my day. Yes, there are going to be appointments I have to keep, but I want to go in a way that doesn’t cause stress and harsh, loud words.

I’m going to lay down Productivity so I can be the wife, mom and friend God wants me to be. He’s created me for this and he sees my heart, not all the check marks and accomplishments on my calendar. In Christ alone, I’m enough and chosen and a child of God and made new and treasured and free and redeemed and held and whole and loved and cherished and known and beloved and valuable. And I’m preapproved. There’s nothing I can do to change any of that.